Truth @ 事实

How important is THE TRUTH (事实）to me ? 

I am isn't a lawyer, I don't need it for my law cases to make clarification.

I am isn't a police, I don't need it to arrest sinners.

I am isn't a judge, I don't need it to decide those punishment. 

In fact, I just out of those thousand millions human being that been living in this so-called true world.

Everyday, in every minute and second, people run in and out, front and back, to find the truth in their respective lives. But, when the truth had revealed, they started to change their mind, hoping it to remain hidden because the truth is always hurtful and offensive. Isn't....

"The truth is cruel"

In most situation, people always asking for the truth, but how far can a person accept the truth? When it comes to the truth moment, that's the moment, we escape from our imagination. Now, only we realize that what we had been imagined and expected, isn't the truth.

If that's the case, why not we just let it remain unrevealed? Choose to continue to live in our world of imagination, for least, we can make ourselves happier. Even though ...

 "Three things cannot be long hidden: Sun, Moon and the truth" 

                                                                                                                         by Buddha 

Having good vision isn't a good thing to myself. I tend to learn the truth through my eyes, because I know vision doesn't lie. Truth doesn't reveal through human expression or body language but basically on their belongings (evidence). Every human wear it own mask and never take it down unless it is necessary. Even the closest person in your life will not reveal his/her true self to you.

"Man is least himself when he talks in his own person.

Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth."

                                                                                                                                by Oscar Wilde

Let's go through these examples:

Case 1 : Husband and Wife

Mr.Ivan and Mrs.Janet had been married for fifteen years. Mr.Ivan is a successful businessman, earns a lot and capable to live with a luxurious life with his wife. But every rich man comes with a bad habit - play around with women. Every night when her husband came back from work, Mrs.Janet could smelled different kinds of perfume in her husband neither coat or clothes. She suspected her husband been playing around with other women but she chose not to go further because she know, she can't accept the truth. On the other hand, Mr.Ivan knew his wife is suspecting on him for having affairs, but he chose not to bring out the case.

Even your life partner may lie to you even though you think yourself been knowing he/she long enough? In this case, most people will think Mrs.Janet is stupid, but in my opinion, I think she is tough and patience enough. She chose to cover up the truth because she imagine for another truth beneath. She say to herself, Mr.Ivan isn't loving those women he been playing with, they're just a passerby in his life, and the true woman that remain forever in his heart is still herself, the one that she proposed to marry with. And surprisingly, Mr.Ivan started to spend less hour in bars and pubs and more with Mrs.Janet because at last, he finds out how beautiful and lovely his wife is to himself compare to those other women who just love his money more than himself. 

So, what is truth in this case? Isn't it cruel and hurtful ? Or did you see it as beautiful ? You judge it yourself. 

Case 2 : Mother and Son

Mei Yi is a strong and successful woman. As usual, God is fair, when you are granted with a good career, you are going to miss out something else in your life. As what people always say, life will never go perfect. Admit it since that's truth. Since she spends and focuses most of her time on her work, she hardly can spend her time on her other half, as a consequences she failed to get married. But thankfully, she adopted a little boy who was neglected by her best friend ten years ago who accidentally got pregnant after meeting an irresponsible man. She raised up the little boy like she gave birth to him. And now, the little boy had already grown up and started to question the origin of himself. Should Mei Yi lie to him as she is his true biological mother or should she revealed the truth, that his parent decided to give up on him even though he is still an embryo?

Isn't the truth in this case is not that important and should remain covered as the boy can still live in his beautiful world and treat Mei Yi as his own mom who loves him a lot even though the truth is she isn't. Why not to let the hidden truth remain hidden since it isn't important to let it unrevealed? This is not about fair or unfair but worth or not worth? What do you think?

Case 3 : Boy and Girl

Joe had been sweet-talked to Lily even though the Joe isn't really love the Lily. Joe know who is his true love and Lily know that Joe isn't loving her. But both of them tend to neglect the truth, because they enjoyed the process of sweet talking to each other.  Even though Lily know, one day Joe will find his true love and their current relationship will be over but she doesn't care and continue to appreciate those time that she have with Joe until the day arrive. 

And now what's truth about? Should they bring it out or shouldn't? What's your opinion here? 

Case 4 : Friends

Kate and Jessica are good friends. They been together sharing their juicy stories most of their time. But honestly, are all being shared or just a portion? Kate is the treasurer of the class and when Teachers' Day is around the corner, the whole class is planning to buy a present for their favorite teacher.  Since Kate is the money holder, so she was assigned to buy the present and collects money from the rest. One day, Jessica went to Kate's room for an outing but accidentally she found out Kate was cheating to the rest of the class. She had collected extra money from the class and spent it on herself. She feel disappointing with her best friend, Kate and confuse with herself. Should she tell her classmates about Kate's act and confront her? 

Isn't this is another kind of truth? Closest one is not trust-able?

In the end, what can you conclude about truth? Isn't truth is beautiful? Isn't truth is ugly? Or you have another definition for it.

Are you one of them? And I tell you, I am one of them for now.

"Truth is the beginning of every good to the gods, and of every good to man."

                                                                                                                                                by Plato

... how do I wish myself to be less sensitive towards my environment?
 ... how do I wish myself to be less observant and see things as simple as possible?
 

But I can't runaway from it, and today, I just found another truth in my life, which I should force myself to accept it. I wish I could still live in my own dream but unfortunately, I was woken up. It is hurtful and will remained hurtful but it just another lesson for the truth in my life. I knew it but I chose not to go deep into that. But since my gas tank is running out of air, it's time for me to dive up to the surface, the reality world. 

We people know that's not gonna happen but we still hope to lie and live in our imagination because imagination is always beautiful as lie is beauty. But how long can a sweet dream last? And now it's my time to wake up as the truth had revealed. 

And you? How about you? Have you encountered your truth or you neglect or avoid it? You may have another story of your own. Remember ...

"The truth are not for all men, but only for those who seek it."

                                                                                                                        by Ayn Rand

My Big, Graduation Day

It's been a long time, I didn't write something for my blog. It also reflects how busy I am for the last three months. Working life indeed, totally different from my student life. It is like an account, work always debit and credit. The account will never stop until the day we quit the job. But, fortunately I still doing the things that I love to do.

Although it's too late for this, but it never be too late for something if you willing to do it.

Back to the purpose of this blog. After a hard work of three years, finally the day  had arrived and  it was 2nd October 2011. When I started the journey, I had 0 % interest towards it, 0% support from my family especially my parents that I will complete it. Thankfully, I got this 100% spirit and sweet, helpful coursemates that make my life more meaningful, and build up my confidence that I can do it.

Coming from a over-protective family, I was being protected by my parents, and people always describe me as an useless person. I was not allowed to participate in any school trips/activities. I was not allowed to hang out with my friends. Due to this, I always wonder what the actual real outside world is, how challenging it is ? 

The day I graduated, means a lot to me. (1) The day allow me to prove to my parents that I can do what they always think I cannot do. Although they are not very happy when I told them the real purpose why I chose to take the course at the first place, but I do really hope they will understand in future. Overall, they are still proud of me. (2) The day allow me to see how many true friends I have, I'm not asking for graduation gift, but how many of them can really remember and greet me, or come over and celebrate the day with me. Thanks to all of you, I appreciate it.

Sitting inside the hall waiting for my scroll (credit to Wei Khang)

A total of 8 courses were in the last session, and Marine Biology was the third last. In other words, we have to wait, wait, wait for our turns to come. Too bad, I gave my camera to my daddy, if not ...hehe... =)

Received my scroll from Pro-Chancellor (credit to Yee Kuen)

I guess my name is hard to pronounce and that is why people always pronounce my last name wrongly. Even on my graduation day, when I received my scroll. Arghhhh...Why ? Why can't you guys get it correct ? Sob T.T. 

The session took about 3 hours, started at 2.30 and ended at 5.30. After we came out from the hall, we're welcomed by people, who we doesn't know, and most importantly is the mother of Marine Biology, Prof. Madya Dr. Siti Aishah Abdullah, my coordinator, my FYP supervisor. Even though, she unable to be in the hall for the day due to her medical appointment, but she did come over to celebrate with us our final moment. 

Dr. Siti and her 2009/10 Marine Bio "Gang"

Not to forget here, our long lost senior, Jin Lig. He kept his promise, he said he will be back during our graduation day. Unbelievable, he is really here to celebrate our big day with us. Thank you Jin Lig. And I gue3ss he gonna M.I.A again.

Jin Lig and I

Next, my BioM juniors, the most memorable graduation gift I ever received. A hand made cards from 7 of them. To make 12 different cards with different designs are not an easy job, but they really did it. Appreciate you people card, now it is hanging in front of my working desk. Sweet. 

Wan Chyng and Yalweis Hauk

Jennifer

The next two people that I want to thanks here are Naja and Steven Kam. Naja, thanks for your guidance during my months in Innovasi Samudra, although you are no longer my colleague, but the bond still there because you're like my god sister and senior. Really appreciate that you willing to come over despite of busy schedule and distance to celebrate my great day with me.

And as for Steven Kam, if I want to write out what you ever help me for me to complete my graduation day, it will be a ten pages blog. Really thanks you for killing your patient to help me to take my jubah and share your room with me. And your SUNFLOWER. Thanks friend. If you think you're imperfect, but to me, you're perfect. No worries. You're great. I'll keep my promise, see you during your convocation.

Naja

Steven Kam 

And lastly, my parents are the greatest people that ever exist in my life. Truthfully, without them, I will not be here as who I am today. Really have to thanks them for coming, all over from Taiping to Kuala Terengganu just to attend my convocation. I proud to see them proud with me. 

My Mum & My Dad

After all, I will not miss out this person. He is a part of my life. He is the one that light out my life. He is the one that taught me the beauty of nature. He is the one that inspire me the most. I love you. Hope to see you again. =)

Wild, Crazy, Fun Nite

Close my eyes, open my eyes, unbelievably I had already passed five weeks, and what's left is only another three weeks. People always said "Those painful days are hard to pass, but those happy days will pass quickly without notice". I believed it, and now, I feeling it. 

Before I went to Innovasi Samudra Sdn. Bhd, month ago, I kept on thinking about the working politics, gossips in the office and etc. but I was proved wrong after I spent my days in the company. The people here are actually nicer than I expected. Being the youngest and raw to the industry, my colleagues never stop to teach me about new things. Although we do gossips among each other, but it's all about ... (something I cannot post here, faham-faham ya).

We cared for each other, we are united. Not like what I had watched in the TV previously, everyone want to get the favor of the employer, but this never happen in Innovasi Samudra. I love to work with them, even there is only five of us, but I think it is enough for a company like Innovasi Samudra.

Our friendship is undeniably strong even though I just be with them for just a month. I feel like I am just the youngest brother in the family, and I got this two sisters and two brothers from different races.

If someone asked me what is my greatest day during my internship, I think/sure it would be 02.06.2011. It was a crazy, wild, fun night that I spent with my colleagues at Greenbox. The first week, salary week, with a bunch of money, we planned some activities to strengthen our friendship. Although, the Karaoke plan nearly failed, but at last it did ON. 

We sang from 7.30 p.m. till 11.00 p.m. Temporarily we put aside our workloads and focused on our singing. Lin and I were called as "Perampas Mikrofon" by Najar, since she figured that both of us like to grab the control and sing every song that been selected by others. (p/s: Najar, we had no choice, since the songs that you guys select are so ngam to both of us + we both know how to sing the song).

Lin was the "Entertainer of the Night" to me alone, since his "NYANYI X BERPERASAN" make me laugh like hell once he started to sing. On the other hand, I was "Entertainer of the Night" to the others, since I laughed like mad fella once Lin started to sing. Not to forget, we enjoyed the night too, cause it is GREENBOX, so we got BUFFET to attack and I found out, we shared one more similarity, big EATER.

Najar posed with her "Yummy" look

 

 

 

 

 

Lin and I "Perampas Mikrofon"

Kwok Wah, Aini and her husband

I laughed till I sat on the floor

Lin left earlier (about 10.10 pm) due to his other commitments, and left four of us. Kwok Wah, Najar and I left at 11.00 pm and left Aini and her husband continued to sing (till 1.30 am). We (Kwok Wah, Najar and I) sang our final song "Gemilang" from Jac before we left. 

The night was full of happiness, laughter and all sort of smiling stuffs that is why I called it as Wild, Crazy, Fun nite.

p/s: I'm sorry I can't post much pictures due to the poor internet connection.

My Own Stories of Ais Kacang

"Memory is a way of holding onto the things you love, 

the things you are, the things you never want to lose"

"Ais Kacang" is one of the most famous desert in our country, Malaysia, especially during those hot and sunny days. But do you people know that this "Ais Kacang" created two memories in my life that I am going to share with you, my reader in this post.

AIS KACANG Story #1

When I was still a kid, Ais Kacang is always my favourite food. Whenever I was asked to write my own personal details in school, my favorite food column will always be Ais Kacang. Why ? It is the trick my grandparents and parents always used to make myself happy. During that period, our family lived in poverty, unlike now. Understand ? Human will always fight for two things, (1) love and (2) money and my parents and grandparents used to quarrel at that time since a lot of time, money was not enough to support us, even our family is not that big. Since I was kid, crying was the best option for me to express my sadness.

But thankfully,when I started to cry, everything will just stop. And a bowl of Ais Kacang can make everything to be just a past. Everyone will shared a bowl of Ais Kacang, even a single bowl it was more than  enough. But, when I started to grow up, the financial condition of my family is getting better and better. Everyone started to care just for their own life. The grandparents used to go for vacation, the parents used to busy with their career, the sister chose to further her study in another town and left me alone in the house.

Whenever we went for Ais Kacang again, the taste and feeling was not the same anymore. Now, everyone had their own bowl (it was affordable), just like our life, we were not sharing our life anymore, because we were too obsessed with money and kept ourselves busy.

AIS KACANG Story #2

Family is always #1 in my heart. And #2 will be friends. I used to have only a few friends back in my school time. I almost lost my confidence over friendship until I met this friend. He gave me my another story of Ais Kacang. He was the only one that I felt comfortable to talk to, so nevertheless, he knew everything about me and my family. He learned about the story of Ais Kacang in my family and I was totally shocked when there was one day, he bought me Ais Kacang. He told me, not only my family members can give me happiness, but as a friend, he is able to do it too. That was the first time when the Ais Kacang 'feel' came back to me. We used to eat Ais Kacang every Friday, and able to spend almost the entire afternoon at the stall, to discuss and exchange our weekly stories. I believed that was what friendship meant in someone life. But, now, this friend was no longer here with me, since his God love him more than I do. 

Why I write about this today ?  Haha !!! This is because: today as usual, the first week of the month, salary week, together my friend and I went to eat expensive food (yummy!!!) and I ordered Ais Kacang. When my friend found out that I didn't finish up my Ais Kacang, she scolded me and asked me to finish it. I explained to her, the reason and she cried. She asked me to share my story with people. I didn't wish to post it in Facebook but I choose to post it here and so whoever is fortunate, they will has this opportunity to read this post and be a part of my listener (padahal, reader).

I am sure, none of friends has ever notice that, I like to order Ais Kacang whenever it is in the menu list. But, I always unable to finish it. The Ais Kacang that I eat now, although it is still sweet and colourful but it doesn't mean anything to me anymore.

So do you have a food that bring so much memories for you ? Share it with us. ^.^
Thank you, J, if not because of you, this story will not appear here. Sweet ^.^

听你说，我的朋友

听你说

生活中，会有几个人，会慢慢的听我们的说话呢。。。

谢谢你，和我分享这首歌，我的朋友

你说。。。

                我听。。


听你说 （歌）

郁：我很開心因為努力生活　和你們分享榮耀的每一秒鐘

如果難過你肩膀最遼闊　你幫我帶走烏雲滿布的天空

如果生活少了有你陪我　我整天開著手機也感到失落

因為我們都最想看到彼此燦爛的笑容

林：我懂星座卻沒有人像我　真的喜歡一個人安靜的自由

我做的夢我堅持做到最後　就算我爬到雲端也繼續做夢

我唱的歌只希望能快樂　其他的我也不想要想的太多

因為我們都最想擁有自己最真的感動

郁：聽你說　聽你說　我們同時擁有一個真心的朋友

要日出日落　因為有夢　所以更認真生活

林：聽你說　聽你說　我們真實擁有一片美好的天空

不能常聯絡　卻更緊握　我們交換的美夢　只想聽你說

我懂星座卻沒有人像我　真的喜歡一個人安靜的自由（郁：呼嗚嗚）

我做的夢我堅持做到最後　就算我爬到

合：　雲端也繼續做夢

郁：我唱的歌只希望能快樂　其他的我也不想要想的太多（林：吼喔喔）

因為我們都最想擁有自己

合：最真的感動

聽你說　聽你說

郁：我們同時擁有一個真心的朋友

要日出日落　因為有夢　所以更認真生活

林：聽你說　聽你說（郁：聽你說）

我們真實擁有一片美好的天空（郁：呼嗚嗚嗚）

不能常聯絡　（郁：卻更緊握）

合：我們交換的美夢　只想聽你說（林：嗚喔喔）

郁：聽你說　（林：　聽你說）

我們同時擁有一個真心的朋友

林：要日出日落　因為有夢　（合：所以更認真生活　吼）

合：（郁：聽你說　聽你說）　我們同時擁有一片美好的天空

（林：不能常聯絡）（郁：卻更緊握）

我們交換的美夢　只想聽你說


谢谢你，与我分享。。。^.^

Hello Kajang !!! Hello Port Dickson !!!

Unbelievably, this post finally come up. It's been two weeks since I first arrived on the ground of Kajang, Selangor. But, due to hectic schedule, I was unable to post out something to update my fella friends regarding on my life as an intern student.

Up to day 10, the journey becoming more and more stressful. The tasks I received is getting tougher and tougher. Compared to the assignments given to me during my uni life, that's was nothing. You can skip your assignments given by your lecture any time you like since the most they can do, is just to deduct your marks but it is completely different when you're in a working environment. Every assignments / tasks you received are $$$ and is going to give impression towards your boss(es). 

Thankfully, as a Marine Biologist, we been trained to be a multi-purpose person and usually we handle numerous   works in one shot. So, I think I doing well and had gave quite a good impression to my boss.

Working in Innovasi Samudra Sdn. Bhd. is a big challenge to myself. Since I was from Marine Biology, so I know nothing about geology, chemistry and physical aspect about the ocean. But, in this company, I am going to do stuff about all the above aspects which is quite new to my study. 

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That's for the general view. Now, let's move deeper. During this internship, my major task will be assisting Mr.Lin, in doing a project namely, Comparison between traditional method, sediment trap and sedimeter on the sedimentation rate on branching and massive coral. It's sound huge right ? It's really a big thing. This project is done for publication. So, stay tune for this journal to appear in Science Direct.

This week, I did a pre-sampling at Tanjung Tuan, Port Dickson with Mr.Lin and another co-worker, Marcus. We planning to deploy our latest device, Sedimeter (which cost RM XXXXX) into the ground, to collect some data before the real sampling. 

I got free dive. For three consecutive days, I done about 6 dives. The current in PD was strong, and the water (OH GOD !!!) was very turbid. I can't even see anything 2 m away from me. But, what so fantastic about the trip was we stayed at the apartment (I gave 3 stars) in an air-cond room, eat well, sleep well and most importantly, I getting well and better with Mr. Lin and Marcus.

Here are some pictures that I captured during the trip :

The "Unknown" corals and seaweed that found at the survey site

Turbid water in Port Dickson, the site where I dived in

Sorry la, I'm planning to upload pics but the line here, don't allow me to do so. So this is what I can upload lo.

Thank you for reading ... ^.^

Kamsa Hamnida ^.^ + Sayonara T.T

Surprisingly, 5 days left. A precious five days. I try my best to spend my last five days as an Uni student to the fullest. It's absolutely to say goodbye to these people who had accompanied me for three years. My coursemates, my ex-roommates and everyone that I forgot to mention here.

Hey, this post is not an acknowledgement ya, it just something I would like to share with you people about how I feel in this past few months.

Many things come and go. Recalled back all those nonsense things are unnecessary. But those sweet memories that left behind were really memorable. 

Huh ??? Two papers to come and one more speech to go. It's really happy when I think of finishing all the papers, and no more paper ahead, but at the same time, it also show that the semester is reaching the end. So bad, that everything have to end so fast.

Still remembered the day when I first came to UMT, during the MJM week, I looked at the entrance and asked myself,

"How fast is three years? Hopefully it can end faster, I don't want to stay here."

That was for that time when I was alone. But, now, it is different. The friends are getting more and more. The intention to stay, it getting higher and higher. But, no choice, this is life. We should let go something old, for something new. 

I'm confident, I will always and never fail to keep in touch with these people. Hopefully, they will think of the same thing. I really love here, and it was such a waste that I have decided to pursue my master unless my future employer require me to do it and willing to pay for me. 

Huh ? What should I continue here. This blog will ten pages long, if I continue to write. Haha...!!!

Ending : Hope for the best for each and everyone of us. For those who leaving for oversea, going to the another part of Malaysia, staying at island or doing their LI nearby their home. And not to forget, for those who still have to spend another year at UMT. Do enjoy your time, appreciate every moment you have with me, no forcing ya !!!

Lastly. Oopppzzzz.. I forgot, mya dearest Supervisors, Dr.Siti and Dr.Zainudin. Sorry if I had done something bad, and for being such a blur son for one year. I tried my best to fulfill your need but I do not sure how far I did to prove myself to both of u and make you both proud. But, do always remember your guidance and sweet words coming out from your mouth. 

But reminder hehe....hire a person to tidy your room .... la ~ la ~ la ~

Love you guys, my friends, my juniors, my supervisors, my lecturers and those lab assistants that had truly assist me during my FYP EXCEPT for those you know who you are !!! 

Just remember me and don't ever forget me ya. This will be the best gift from all of you. 

With Mummy ^.^

With my dearest friendzzz at Sekayu waterfall

With my Korean family ^.^

-The End-

我期待

。。。终于。。。已经到了，还剩下一页就读完了。


                    很期待，最后一句 会是什么。。。




                               如果一切都是在海边 开始。。。


                                            
                                           我希望 当 我看着最后一页的时候 都会是在海边。。。

明.天.见 吧 !!! ^.^

小小 与 大大

”小小“ 在播放

在一个美丽的夜晚里。。。。。小小 遇到 大大

小小 ：好久不见，你好吗 ？

大大 ：好久不见，我很好。你呢 ？

小小 ：我还是老样子，没变。

双方一直看着对方。没说话。静静的就过了一分钟。。。大大就出声了

大大 ：哈哈 ！我听说你。。啊。。啊。。

小小 ：我 ？我什么 ？你听到什么？

大大 ：没什么啦。突然间又忘了。

小小 ：忘了！这么快。不想说，就不要说出来吧。

大大 ：天呀！不要生气吗？刚才突然间，静起来，不懂要说设么。

小小 ：（转身，然后微笑）

大大 ：我。。我。。

小小 ：又来了。要说不出口。每次都是这样，不能勇敢点吗？气死我了！我。。我。。什么    呀？

大大 ：。。。。

小小 ：不想说，就不用说啦。

大大 ：小小，真么就没见了，为什么你还是没变，还是那么喜欢骂我。

小小 ：（往下看，觉得有一点内疚-为什么那么久没见面，难得见面，就骂人呀）

大大·：但是我很喜欢，喜欢被你骂，被你管的那短时间。喜欢听到你对我说出来的每一句话

小小 ：。。。

大大 ：（慢慢握着小小的手）你觉得这一刻是一种缘分吗？

小小 ：缘分？你越说越远了。我听不明白，请把你的手放开啦，等一下，被人看见 就不好啦

大大 ：不，我不会再放开了。我会在那么笨了。你说我每次都没勇气，现在我就要给你一个明白。到底，你是在装傻还是你真的不明白呀？我说的都是真心话。

小小 ：懂什么？什么真心话呀？ （假装）

大大 ：（站前一步，吧小小的手放在胸口里）我的心在这里，你感觉到吗？ 

小小 ：（傻傻的看着大大，慢慢把手拿开）感觉到，又会怎样呢？在一年前 我就能感觉到了，但是又什么好开心呀。你从来都没有踏出那一步，根本都不会有什么改变。知道，感觉到，有会代表着什么呀？

大大 ：我承认 我很笨 我很傻 我没有勇气。什么都要怕一场。其实这一年来，我一直很想找你。虽然我知道了 你在哪里，但是还是不敢去找你。我不懂你还会记得我吗？不懂你已经有对象了吗？但是，在这一刻，这一刻 （握回小小的手）我能遇到你就是一种缘分。我不想再失去你了。

小小 ：大大，你。。

大大 ：听我说把，小小。你就是好像我故事里的一个人，没有了你，我的故事就不会完美了。不能少了你的一部分。我过的每一秒，都那么的需要你。就给我一个机会，也给你一个机会。答应我好吗？我们不要再逃避了。

小小 ：也许 这就是缘分吧。离开了一年，却给我们再遇见。我重来没想过会在见到你，我以为 我会把你忘了，但是你却一直在我记忆中。大大，我根本从来没想过你会对我说这些话。。你确定是我吗？我不想你后悔，我们的路 会很难走下去。

大大 ：相信我，就是你，你就是我想要的人。以前是，现在是，以后都会是。永远，永远，我爱的只有你，小小，一个人。不管路会多难走，有你陪我，我都不会怕。

小小 ：那我也不怕，多难走，一起走。

大大 ：是的，多难走，一起走。

小小 ：大大

大大 ：小小 （两人拥抱）

小小 ：我爱你

大大 ：我爱你

-完-

Credit ：谢谢方文山

An Aries's Compatibility

I am a very superstitious human being, perhaps, I inherited it from my grandma. I will always look at my daily horoscope and Chinese zodiac once I woke up. In most of the readings, the things tend to turn into reality. ^.^Y

But, recently, when I was helping one of my friend, I found this website, discussing on the compatibility between each horoscope sign. I was born in April, 7 so I belong to the Ram, Aries. So what are your sign, and how good  or bad is our relationship, please select your own sign and read the description I provided here.

Don't take it seriously, it just for fun. 

Aries + Aries

Both Aries are very demanding individuals, and egoism may likely to dominate the partnership if both sides unable to calm down. Both sides tend to see themselves to be the person doing the right decision. Besides that, both of you are creative individuals and sparks of inspiration will fly between you. This combination is going to be dynamic, bold and extremely exciting. One great thing between two Aries is both will encourage each other in their respective works and social areas. (credit-Astrology.com)

Aries + Taurus

Relationship between an Aries and a Taurus will focus more on financial and materialistic side of life. It may be a combination for those who want to become business partner and it could even make you rich. It is important if Aries can put aside his/her ego and match the behaviour of his more grounded style Taurus partner's. An Aries tend to fiery and spontaneous in response to life's challenges unlike Taurus, who seem to be slower and more laid back, prefers a steadier pace. On the emotional level, Taurus is more possessive and dependent than Aries. You can be quite changeable in mood. You will be in trouble if you take everything from Taurus for granted. (credit-Astrology.com)

Aries + Gemini

Gemini is a stimulator to an Aries. This combination is great, and both will enjoy friendship, great conversation and interesting social time together. In return, Gemini people do not really seek for stimulation. GEminis adore Aries endless conversation and sense of humors. Aries love a good laugh and Gemini is capable in giving that. Aries stay within the friendship zone of Gemini, and this indicates very successful social companionship. It seems the best connection between these two zodiacs may be friendship rather than serious bond. (credit-Astrology.com)

Aries + Cancer

Cancer is far more emotional than Aries itself but they are mostly shy and reserved creatures. An Aries can provide them motivation and guide them to be initiative and explore all the possibilities. Aries and Cancer will shared a steamy affair. A Cancer looks for an undemanding, stable home life whereas an Aries is far unwillingly to settle down. A Cancer should be able to give freedom to Aries, this partnership will going to work. (credit-Astrology.com)

Aries + Leo

Aries must understand that Leo is a proud and dominating sign. Respect is the main aspect in building up a relationship with a Leo. Question on who will rule will always appear. Once the competitiveness going on, one must give in and let the other to go. As long as this can be done, the relationship will not be a problem. Leo to Aries, maybe a bit controlling and too proud or someone who's going to offer spiritual blessings and fulfillment. (credit-Astrology.com)

Aries + Virgo

Virgo is a perfectionist and always go with cool, critical thinking. They are completely the other side of Aries and may look odds with them, even irritated by them. Aries could easily get themselves pretty angry with Virgo highly moral attitudes. However, Virgo benefit Aries in financial and work areas of life. There are many lessons that an Aries could learn from the Virgo. Virgo are good supporter. Virgo are born to be serve and lead. The combination for Aries and Virgo are always not a good choice. (credit-Astrology.com)

Aries + Libra

Libra are totally an opposite to Aries but it is said to be a very good combination due to that "opposite attract". Libra is not good in making decision as Aries. They need guidance from Aries and afraid for mistakes. In working areas, Libra is sympathetic to their broader perspectives. Both are very sociable but in different styles. Libra need to explore conversations and personalities deeply whereas Aries just prefer on the surface and move on to new conquests and experiences. (credit-Astrology.com)

Aries + Scorpio

Without doubt, a Scorpio and an Aries is a unique yet intense combination from the outset. Aries, like to dominate and lead a relationship and Scorpio will let it be for a while. But latter, Scorpio tend to plan to take over the lead position. Scorpio is secretive and subtle, whereas Aries is front and blatant. Scorpio do say what's on their mind, but usually not saying it immediately. Both opinions are different since both sides look differently towards perspective of life. Scorpio can lead you to look beneath the surface of life, enjoying in exploring deeper sides of life together. (credit-Astrology.com)

Aries + Sagitarius

Both zodiacs are combined to be explosive and adventurous. Each of them have short attention span and need for constant variety. It provide great joy and playfulness as well. Understandings reflects some of the qualities between each other. But, discussions may be lead to angry and disagreement. Aries will support Sagittarius for their ambitions. On the other hand, Sagittarius will bring lucks for Aries and a great spiritual influence. (credit-Astrology.com)

Aries + Capricorn

It is a really tough combination for romance. Aries are extroverted while Capricorn are introverted and shy. Both are very distinctly different in attitudes. The relationship give a freedom-less feeling as Capricorn sometimes can be too conservative. However, work may not be a problem since both can work professionally well and make money together. (credit-Astrology.com)

Aries + Aquarius

Aries and Aquarius are both extremely independent individuals and need plenty space to grow. Respect can bring out better qualities in both. Both tend to adore with each other. Aquarius is a sign of friendship to Aries Aries have a strong ego, Aquarius more concerned with humanitarian issues. Aquarius is always a guidance to Aries. Basically, both are attracted to each other. The communication between will flow nicely and give plenty of good times. (credit-Astrology.com)

Aries + Pieces

Initially the connection is stable but in fact, only to realize that connection is not strong at all. Aries should think carefully before involving themselves with Pieces. Pieces are Aries's hidden and secretive zone, could form mysterious in relationship. Aries can plough through any situation but Pieces thin-skinned, experiences things from different vantage points. A good side is Pieces are good supporter and will teach you about spirituality, empathy, compassion and deeper mysteries of life. (credit-Astrology.com)

! Don't take it seriously ya, this is just prediction and it's not true sometimes. But who's know it seems true to some of us. Fellow Aries, Ram. ^.^